God our Law Giver and Fighter

Reading through the culmination of Israel's deliverance from Egypt (Exodus 12-15), I appreciated how God became Israel's Law Giver and Fighter. These roles that God took upon Himself is also true to us as believers in Christ:

God as the Law Giver
Some of us would think today that the laws that God gave Israel were too long, too detailed, or even weird.
But if you think about it, Israel were slaves back in Egypt for 430 years (That's more than our 300 years of colonization from Spain). Israel lived under Egyptian law where they were viewed as slaves--dispensable and without dignity. And now that the Lord is bringing them out of that world, they wouldn't have a clue of what it means to live in freedom. God had to give them new system for living that not only gave them order, but gave them dignity as a human being. Exodus 12 & 13, provided new laws and ordinances for them to observe as they begin to exist as a free nation (more will be added to them in the succeeding chapters).

This makes me appreciate God as our Law Giver. We were also slaves once, operating under the law of sin and death, but when we found freedom in Christ, we now operate under the law of the Spirit. This freedom doesn't mean that we can sin all we want, but it is a true kind of freedom that enables us to say no to ungodliness and live holy lives. I am reminded of David in the Psalms when he said that "the law of the law is perfect, refreshing the soul. The statutes of the Lord are trustworthy, making wise the simple." (1) To operate under a kingdom system where the law-giver is God who is transcendent, and not just another human being, defines a firm and unchanging picture of what is morally right and wrong. To deny a divine Law Giver discredits the moral laws of our society. (2) God's commands when followed will give us dignity as a human being and children of God. God knows what's best for us.

Two Lives, One Hand: God at work in every man

Last night, I was reading through Exodus when I again came across the passage where God says to Moses, "... I will harden Pharaoh's heart, and though I multiply my miraculous signs and wonders in Egypt, he will not listen ..." (Exodus 7:3-4). And I thought, why would God demand Pharaoh to let His people go, while at the same time hardening the Pharaoh's heart so that the Pharaoh will not let His people go? Of course the surrounding passages tell us that God does this so that (1) He can judge Pharaoh and Egypt (v. 4), (2) so that He can display His power to the people against false gods (v. 5), and (3) so that Egypt will not just let them go, but drive them out, "favorably disposed ... so that when you leave you will not go empty handed" (v. 5, 3:21). God's judgment on Pharaoh was not without cause. Pharaoh enslaved the Israelite people, and on top of that, he challenged the Lord by saying, "who is the Lord, that I should obey him?" (5:2).

Sadly, this rejection of God persists today. Paul writes about "men who suppresses the truth by their wickedness" (Ro 1:18), who "exchanged the glory of the immortal God" for false objects of worship" (v. 22). Some of them are even professing believers but they live as though "having a form of godliness but denying its power" (2 Timothy 3:5). And because of man's deliberate disobedience, God "gives him over" to the consequences of his actions, a downward spiral of moral depravity and destruction (Ro 1:21-32). This is what happens when we deliberately rebel against God.

Is there still hope for restoration and reconciliation? A resounding yes!

Sunrise vs. Sunburst: On discovering God's will

I was reading through a sermon on the life of Joseph and this excerpt struck me:

I heard someone say that God’s will is more like a sunrise than a sunburst. Out of the darkness and chaos of life, God’s will rises slowly over the horizon. It’s not so much that we see the sun. It’s that by the sun we see everything else. So it is with God’s will ...
 http://www.keepbelieving.com/sermon/do-you-know-why-you-were-born/

What it means to be a martyr for Christ

Tonight I found this book "Tortured for Christ" by Richard Wurmbrand on a second-hand bookstore. I've been seeing this book promoted via Voice of Martyrs. This excerpt in the foreword by Tom White struck me:

Many today believe that a martyr is simply someone who dies for his faith. Unfortunately, by this definition we have lost the true significance and depth of martyrdom. St. Augustine once stated, "The cause, not the suffering, makes a genuine martyr." In his play Murder in the Cathedral, T. S. Eliot describes a martyr as one "who has become an instrument of God, who has lost his will in the will of God, not lost it but found it, for he has found freedom in submission to God. The martyr no longer desires anything for himself, not even the glory of martyrdom."

Matthew McConaughey on faith

Another interview I found interesting. I still have a hard time spelling his surname I had to copy and paste it. I loved his recent work for Dallas Buyers Club where he won an Oscar, and the recent Interstellar movie with Christopher Nolan which blows my mind. It's hard to come by for a Hollywood actor to talk about faith.

Does your family go to church every Sunday?
Yeah. In Texas. It's non-denominational. It's based in the faith that Jesus is the son of God, that he died for our sins, but many different denominations come in.

Was that a return for you, or had you been going all along?
As soon as we had children, I was like, "You know what? That was important to my childhood." Even if it was just for the ritual of giving an hour and a half on Sunday to yourself, to pray and to think about others, even if you're tired or whatever. I noticed how much I missed it and needed it. It's a time for me to take inventory of my last week, to look at what's in the future and say my thank-you's and think about what I can work on to do better.

When you talk about God, do you imagine him as...
The Prrime Moovah! The Waave Maker!

But it's an identifiable presence? Someone who can hear what you're saying?
Yes. And somebody who can help answer my questions. Someone who has a hand in all of this miracle we call life, which I believe is a miracle. But, see, at the same time, I completely believe in evolution.

Do you believe in the resurrection of Jesus Christ?
[long pause] Well, it's a heaven of a story, ain't it?

http://www.gq.com/entertainment/celebrities/201411/matthew-mcconaughey-career

Donald Sutherland on what inspires him

I was reading GQ magazine and came across an interview with Donald Sutherland, or President Snow in Hunger Games. I like reading interviews about interesting people. And when asked what inspires him, his response struck me and got stuck in my mind:

Now, tell me who inspires you.
[another long pause] When people ask me where I live, I say, "I live with my wife." I don't know whether I live in Paris, New York, or Miami. I live with my wife. My inspiration, my judgment, it comes from my wife. She has...truth. And it's humbling. And so it's necessary that whatever exertions I make meet with her...not necessarily her approval, but at least her acceptance. Would you say that's true? [looks to Francine] Oh, I so love you. God! [back to me] Come, let's look at the garden. (http://www.gq.com/entertainment/celebrities/201411/donald-sutherland-hunger-games?currentPage=2)

It raised up questions of my own:
  • What inspires you? What makes you passionate about what you do? 
  • Do you and your spouse inspire each other to become better spouse to each other? To become better people?

When Life Interrupts Your Plans


There was once a guy who was engaged to a beautiful lady. He loved her so much and he dreamt of the day when they are going to finally start a family of their own. But a few weeks left before the big day, he found out that his fiance got pregnant! Certainly not by him. What would you do if you were on his shoes? Many thought she deserved to be humiliated for what she had done. But being a good and decent man, he decided to break off the wedding quietly. Even though it was like a dagger in his heart, he still thought about her welfare, and the child she now carries. What happens when life throws a wrench in your plans?

A long obedience in the same direction


A student who just started in his journey with God shared to me his situation: When I started my relationship with Christ, I was so passionate to know Him. When I learned how to read God's Word, I devoured it and was so excited to "hear" from God. But these days, it's quite different. I feel as I there is something lacking in me. I am not as excited as I used to be. I'm not reading the Bible as much as I used to. Is there something wrong?

Often times we go through times when we find ourselves less "excited" about our relationship with God. I understand what you mean, because I've been there many times. For me there are reasons why we experience this. But first, let's get some things out of the way. Let's try to answer these questions:

1. Is it a sin issue? David said, "Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me ..." (Psalm 139:23-24). Sin no matter how big or small hinders us from entering into the presence of God. And if the answer here is yes, I encourage you to return to God, ask forgiveness for your sin and continue walking with Him in His strength. He is faithful to forgive us of our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

2. Is it a relationship issue? How are your relationships with your family and your "neighbors"? Is there an unresolved conflict with another person? They can rob us of joy in the Lord. Jesus tells us that when we come to worship God, if we remember that someone has offended us, we must first go to that person who have offended us and be reconciled with them (Matthew 5:23-24).


Keep Calm and Trust God

Update: 5PM, So more "reliable" sources have confirmed that the "flesh-eating disease is but in fact a hoax.

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I posted this in Facebook following the recent news report that came out last night ...

So last night the news show Bandila came out with this report from Pangisnan about a "flesh-eating" disease that resonates with something that has been prophesied last year by an Indian prophet. Few thoughts:

Let's be responsible in what we post as people of God, let's get all the facts muna. I saw from the youtube video that there is a "part 2" report tonight. I'm also a bit "skeptic" that Babao would reference the prophecy at the end of the report, when it was not mentioned during the report, sounds like a ploy to get more ratings. They've been peddling this hastag "pray for Pangasinan" "mysterious disease" in hopes to make it trend.

I'm not saying it's false (if the news is related to the prophecy). It may be true (The Bible tells us to test prophetic utterances, 1 Corinthians 14:29). But be responsible with what we post. Let us not sow fear, for God doesn't give us a spirit of fear, but of love, boldness and sound mind. Let us be guided with these. Boldness - never shy away from sharing God's Word and God's Hope. Soundness - let's get the facts straight and not overreact or exaggerate. Love - warn in love, don't stop at just warning, but share the antidote, the solution. In everything we do, let's see to it that Jesus is exalted.


Day in the Life


This year's Valentines Day fell on Friday, so we grabbed the opportunity to do a Valentines-themed event called "Agree or Disagree." It was sort of a panel discussion wherein a group of young adult couples would weigh in on some popular love statements. Everyone had a great time, especially when young people talk about love. But I'm also happy that we've got some great insights about love, God and relationships from our visitors

"I'm in-love with a non-believer."

 

A student asked me this week: What are your thoughts about a born-again Christian having a relationship with a partner who is [of a different religious preference]? (I placed brackets because that was supposed to be a specific religion, but for the sake of discussion, let's apply it in any kind of "religious preference.")

If you wish to read my Taglish version (trip lang). Click here

Before I got serious about my relationship with my to-be wife, I went through the awesome season of crushes and courtship. And growing up in a church community, I was taught about one of the most popular verse about romantic relationships: "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14). I dare to say that every person who grew up in a church youth group know this verse. It's a verse so over-used and sometimes abused that it often equates with the word "killjoy". As a young person, I considered girls who were beautiful and kind, and didn't care much about whether they had a personal relationship with Jesus or not, after all, it seems "discriminating". The young me would would think how overly strict the command was, and would even play scenarios in my mind that would justify breaking this Scripture. Looking on hindsight, I am thankful that by God's grace He has led me to know and marry someone who also loves God. And I stand by the counsel of God's Word in 2 Co 6:14.

"In-love ako sa isang unbeliever"



May isang estudyante na nag-ask sa akin this week: Ano ang pananaw ko sa pakikipagrelasyon ng isang born-again Christian sa isang [hindi mananampalataya]? (Nilagyan ko ng brackets yung word dahil specific yung religion na binanggit niya. Pero for the sake of discussion ito na lang ang itawag natin.)

(Alam mo bang may English version ako nito. Click mo dito.)

Bago ko nakilala ang future-wife ko, dumaan din ako sa panahon ng crushes at panliligaw. Lumaki ako sa church, at pagdating sa romantic relationships, tinuro nito sa akin ang isa sa pinaka-popular na verse patungkol sa dito: “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). Siguro lahat ng dumaan sa youth group sa church ay alam na itong verse na ito. Minsan nao-over-use pa nga ito kaya kapag naririnig na ito ng mga kabataan, ang iniisip nila kaagad e “ang killjoy naman”.

Nung bata ako, nagka-crush din naman ako. Pero hindi ko masyadong pinapansin kung sila ba ay may personal relationship sa Panginoon, kasi parang discriminating ka naman ‘pag ganun. Naisip ko, grabe sobrang higpit naman nag utos na yon, at nag-iisip ako ng mga scenario kung papaano maja-justify na suwayin ang utos na iyon. Pero kung babalikan ko ang naging decision ko, nagpapasalamat ako sa grace ng Lord dahil pinakilala Niya sa akin at napangasawa ko ang asawa ko na may takot din sa Diyos. Kaya naniniwala ako sa payo ng 2 Co 6:14.

Infographic: Real Love


This is my first (and hasty) attempt to make an "infographic". "What is Real Love" is taken from Nette's talk (with her permission) that she gave last Friday at our Chi Alpha UBelt student service.

Devotion: God's Messenger


Then the prophet Jeremiah said to Hananiah the prophet, “Listen, Hananiah! The Lord has not sent you, yet you have persuaded this nation to trust in lies. 16 Therefore this is what the Lord says: ‘I am about to remove you from the face of the earth. This very year you are going to die, because you have preached rebellion against the Lord.’” Jeremiah 28:15-16

Prophets in the Old Testament are people who are called by God to serve as messengers of Him to the people (particularly Judah and Israel).

If you are tasked to be a prophet for the Lord , the task is not something to be taken lightly. After all you are bearing the message of the King. (I remember seeing a funny clip of Rowan Atkinson demonstrating the different kinds of messengers, one who bears good news and bad news).

In the New Testament, the role of the prophet has been bestowed to individuals in the church, that serves the body of Christ (Eph 4:11). In relation to the world, God calls His people to become proclaimers in behalf of God (1 Peter 2:9). Moses even prophesied this (Nu 11:29).

In Jer 28, we see a "showdown" between Jeremiah, the Lord's true prophet, and Hananaiah, a prophet who prophesied a lie, tricking the people that it came from the Lord. A few thoughts come into mind.

Week in the Life: Never in vain

National Youth Leaders Summit 2014, January 28-29

It was a fun week this week. I attended the National Youth Leaders Summit held at ICS from Tuesday to Wednesday. It started after lunch but was able to arrive after my work at ICI. The summit gathered regional/district youth and Chi Alpha leaders from our movement. I always love these gatherings because I get to catch up with friends and co-laborers in the youth ministry. I was told that during the first session where each gave updates and testimonies about what God is doing in their place, that most of them shared about how they are reaching students through Chi Alpha. Too bad I missed it, but it's touching to know that the work we invested a few years back are now yielding harvest. And we will not stop, the work continues until more campuses are reached with the gospel through Chi Alpha.


Learnings about movement-making in Chi Alpha

This week I was asked to share the morning devotion. I thought of a few topics that I could share, but as I prepare my exhortation, one message became clear. I felt that I need to share my learnings about serving in Chi Alpha Philippines. The following message was given to youth leaders last National Youth Leaders Summit of PGCAG on January 29, 2014.

This year is my 10th year serving in youth ministry as a youth minister. And I still remember in April 2004, fresh from graduating in UST architecture that I was struggling about my calling. I was 22 years old at that time. I found myself going up to Baguio to go to AIYS (Asian Institute for Youth Studies, 2nd batch). I took up Institute of Campus Ministry, not knowing what I was in for, because I always wanted to try something new (I’ve been serving in the youth leadership for some years now, but not as youth pastor). There I met Kuya Sur, Ate Merla, Ate Afel, and Brian Lopez. And as they say, the rest was history. I received confirmation from God to be minister of the gospel. Never did I know that was the beginning of my journey in serving in Chi Alpha.

God gives each person a window of opportunity to fulfill what he was made for, not to bring glory to himself, but to God. We often call it now as a “kairos moment” or a time of opportunity. In the Bible, God invites ordinary people to take part in doing something extraordinary for God. I remember when Esther found herself in her make or break situation, God spoke through her uncle Mordecai saying, “And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?” (Esther 4:14) And like Esther, you are here because God raised you up to do something special for Him in this season. The question would you be bold enough to take that window of opportunity to be used by God for His greater glory. Would you be faithful to take the movement to the next generation?

Here are five things I’ve learned about movement-making as I served in Chi Alpha. This is not an exhaustive list, it may also be incomplete, but these are some principles that could help someone who are serving in movements.

Your Blueprint for Success


Last Friday Life Gathering, I shared about the importance of setting goals and creating action plans to achieve them. It’s still the first month of 2014, and you don’t just want to breeze through this year then realize it’s the end of 2014 and nothing much has happened. God has prepared breakthroughs for us this year, but we must understand that each of us have a part to play in order to experience God’s breakthrough in our lives.

Growing up, I am fond of playing legos. I didn’t own legos as a kid, but we have a neighbor who did. And every afternoon, my friend and I would play together with this bricks. All lego sets all have a "finished product", like a house or a car. In order to build the “finished product” you must not miss that “blueprint” that goes with the lego box, giving clear instruction on how to build what you’re trying to build. Same is true with your goals for 2014. You need to have a plan of action steps in order to make this goal into a reality. Anoine de Saint-Exupéry (Author of the Little Prince) was right to observe that “a goal without a plan is just a wish.”

God Himself had a plan. He said, “For I know the plans I have for you …” (Je 29:11). God had a clear set of action steps in reconciling man back to Him. And believe it or not, God wants you to succeed. He goes on to say that these plans are “… plans to prosper you and not to harm you.” God has set in us the ability to dream and set the courses of actions to reach that dream.

For this article, I surveyed the book of Proverbs (whose writings came mostly from none other than the wisest king who ever lived) about the topic of setting goals and plans. And from these verses I found four prescriptions for wise planning.

Embracing who you are in Christ

While growing up have you ever doubted your effectiveness as a witness for Christ because your conversion story is not "spectacular"? Or have you felt insecure because it seems that God has gifted other people more than you? This is one of the concerns I addressed in one of my DGroups this week.


Jean Grey Complex

In one of the X-men movies, Jean Grey felt that she didn't much have to offer to the team because she considered telepathy and telekinesis as passive superpower compared to the superpowers of her teammates. This led to insecurity and depression, which ultimately led to her demise (She would become the bad Phoenix in the next sequel). I've felt the same way too growing up. I questioned God about my testimony and my gifts. It seems that other people's story of how they met God were more spectacular than my story. They would share, "I was a drug addict then ..." or "I went from one relationship to another ..." or "I killed someone ..." And the young me thought, "God, I wish my story was like that." I thought that if I started off as a bad person, far away from God, my conversion story could be more convincing, more vivid, and can be much appreciated by the hearer. Instead, I was just normal, a good and unassuming guy.

Celebrating Our Fourth

Last Wednesday, Netty and I celebrated our fourth year anniversary. Someone said, "the days are long, the years are short." That's how it feels. I can still remember our wedding like it's yesterday. I'm so thankful to God for giving me such a lovely and loving wife. Today, I can't imagine my life without her, for reals. She knows which buttons to push, when I'm happy, when I'm sad, or when she needs me to do something for her (insert Billy Joel's She's Always A Woman to Me). I have to remind myself more often of what I heard Ptr. Chris Long say--"Happy Wife, Happy Life"--because this is so true!

Anyway, we sort of had a pattern going on now. The first and third year, we celebrated our anniversary out of town (Singapore & Hong Kong). The years in between we just celebrated at home base. So to celebrate, we had a wonderful lunch date at Yabu, the Japanese tonkatsu place in Glorietta 5. Both of us were looking forward to try it because it's been a buzz last few months about how good the food here is. So everything's tonkatsu--pork, chicken, seafood etc. You get into some ritual of making your own tonkatsu sauce. The tonkatsu was so soft, it was so good. Overall the resto was okay, something you would reserve for a special occasion.

After lunch, we walked around the mall, did some grocery shopping and finally went home to watch some movies. I'm excited for what God has in store for us this year ... a baby perhaps? :) In God's faithful time.

"An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels." (Proverbs 31:10)


Take Them Further: Raise Disciple-Makers

This is the first week in 2014 that I ministered in the campus, and it's great to be back after almost a month of holiday rest. This semester I'm leading groups of young guys throughout my days in the campus. And it's a privilege and blessing to invest in their lives.

The thing about discipleship is that when you disciple students, don't just envision them to become good Christians. Take them further. Envision them that in the future they will also become disciple-makers. I think having this mindset calibrates the way you prepare and equip them. Are you just training them to be disciples, or disciple-makers? A quote from Andy Stanley, "It's not what you do, but who you raise."

The photos below were from last Wednesday, one of my leaders discipleship group.



True Devotion

It's an event I always forget, being too close to the Christmas and New Year festivities, and it springs up to you while you're wearing out the holiday hues--the Feast of the Black Nazarene. Every year it gets bigger and bigger, so big that in the past few years it shuts down the city. Twitter-verse say that the "devotion" of the people is truly awe-inspiring, you could call it an affair of biblical proportions. And yes, I get goosebumps watching it.


Truth rather than tradition

But tradition doesn't always mean it's the truth. I believe we share the same authoritative book, the Bible.

Ten Commandments (Exodus chapter 20 verses 4-6, quoted from the Catholic Bible - http://www.catholic.org/bible/book.php?id=2&bible_chapter=20

4 'You shall not make yourself a carved image or any likeness of anything in heaven above or on earth beneath or in the waters under the earth.
5 'You shall not bow down to them or serve them. For I, Yahweh your God, am a jealous God and I punish a parent's fault in the children, the grandchildren, and the great-grandchildren among those who hate me;
6 but I act with faithful love towards thousands of those who love me and keep my commandments.

Another quotation from Isaiah 44 - http://www.catholic.org/bible/book.php?id=29&bible_chapter=44

8 Have no fear, do not be afraid: have I not told you and revealed it long ago? You are my witnesses. Is there any God except me? There is no Rock; I know of none.
9 The makers of idols are all nothingness; the works they delight in serve no purpose. And these are the witness against them: they see nothing, they know nothing; and so they will be put to shame.
10 Who ever fashioned a god or cast an image without hope of gain?
11 Watch how all its devotees will be put to shame, and the men who made it too, who are only human. Let them all assemble, let them stand forward and feel both fear and shame!

From these two verses, it is clear that God, our God, abhors the worship of idols and carven images.


Disciples rather than devotees

Instead of worshiping representations of God, God wants us to worship Him in Spirit and in Truth. No substitutes. Jesus is looking for more than devotees, He is looking for disciples who would follow Him daily, not once a year ... Disciples who would follow Him after the big party, even if it boils down to just you going against the flow of the world. Jesus is looking for disciples. "Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men" (Mt 4:19).


Symbols rather than objects of worship

You might say that, "The statues are there to remind us of God," or as I have heard many times from the clergy, "It is not meant to be worshiped, it's the masses who worship it." On the latter, as shepherds of God's flock, we are responsible to lead and teach our sheep to know what is right. On the former, yes, we may have different symbols of faith, but again, let them only be symbols, and not an object of worship.

At the seminary, I made a paper on the Devotion to the Black Nazarene on our Asian Theology class. And what I found out is that what makes the Black Nazarene so popular among many is that the suffering image of Christ carrying the cross resonates with many of us in a people whose majority is still living in poverty. But more than that, I hope this image will remind us of the work of atonement Christ did for us. He died and paid for our sins (instead of us receiving the punishment of eternal separation from God), so that we can have life. Far be it that we forget the work of Christ on the cross. But the story doesn't end there. Jesus conquered sin and death and He was raised to life and is living today. Jesus' story is like our story as a nation, our story doesn't end in hopeless despair, but in faith, I believe we shall rise above it.


Love and respect rather than condemnation

I saw on Facebook how one person who posted a Bible verse (about how God hates idolatry) got lambasted for his "inappropriate" comment in the observance of this event.

For the student of God's Word and the follower of Christ, we are accountable. God told to Ezekiel that as God's representatives in behalf of the people, that as watchmen we are accountable to sound the alarm and to warn the people of God's judgment:

But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet and the people are not warned, and a sword comes and takes a person from them, he is taken away in his iniquity; but his blood I will require from the watchman’s hand. - Ezekiel 33:6

Yes, we are accountable, we are responsible. But truth and love should be sides of the same coin. We should not lose sight of the purpose of proclaiming the truth, not to win an argument, but to lead a person to a right relationship with Christ. After all, (1) we are all sinners, and everyone is eligible to receive God's grace and forgiveness, and (2) rarely do you win friends by trying to win an argument, how much more trying to win an argument over social media and the masses, that doesn't happen. We are also not to shut up, but participate in a healthy dialog.

I believe the best way to be heard is through relationship and our testimony. You don't win masses, you win individuals. I think you respect others' belief by not always talking, but listening to what they have to say. Loving the individual, even when you two have opposing views. That doesn't prevent you from praying for them, and grabbing every opportunity to love them and show them the kindness of the Lord. Jesus' did command to love those who are opposed to you.

New Year with Family

Yesterday was the Cadimas new years lunch at the house. As usual there were great food and lots of people. Being an introvert, I dread with too much people at the same time. I realize, it helps to get your mind prepared before meeting a large group of people. Something that I haven't intentionally done in the past.


Before the meal, Jewel read a psalm to ponder on God's faithfulness. Then my mother in law shared a very short exhortation and then she led us all in prayer. I realize, believers should never be ashamed of their faith, they should even take the lead when it comes to this.

I think I stuffed too much food, because they were so delicious. After lunch, I felt so full that I wanted to doze off, but there were people in my bed.


In the afternoon, the cousins went to the mall to watch another MMFF movie. It has become a tradition, that Nette's cousins would go to the movie house on Christmas and New Year to watch a movie, sometimes one after the other.

Last Christmas, we saw Kimidora and yesterday we saw, Vice Ganda's movie. While both movies packed much laughs, they had their own share of chirping crickets because of bad comedy or too much drag. It's sad that popular Filipino movies have come to this--slapstick and elementary humor, to resonate with a movie critic's review I read about another movie entry. I have to admit, coming out of one of these movies, I really felt stupid. But you got what you chose right. I hope we can make better movies. I agree on the suggestion that MMFF's leadership be given to a film organization, not MMDA who is primarily in charge of city traffic and order. I also hope they will feature indie movies of quality content in the mainstream, more accessible to the public.

Closing 2013. In with 2014!



Yesterday we went and visited our parents in Caloocan. The last time we step foot there was October. But the place remains the same, with a few small changes here and there. But it's still the home I grew up in as a post-college young adult (We moved a lot when I was a kid).

It was a simple new years eve lunch celebration. I led our new year's prayer, thanking God for His faithfulness in 2013. In the past weeks I've been somewhat loathing this routine break (for reasons that will warrant another blog post), but a few days before I've got an "obvious discovery": We haven't had any major trouble this year, no sickness or loss in our family; we have never lacked, God was just always on time. Despite the challenges and selfish moments in my head, God has brought us through.

My father is turning 60 in 2014. My mom 59. And he said for his birthday he wants to travel, hop on a plane and go somewhere far away ... with snow ... and it's Japan. Okay so we gotta prepare for that.

In the afternoon we went to Lucky Chinatown Mall just to hang-out. Lawrence had his haircut. We also met Zarah his girlfriend there. We planned to hang-out at Starbucks, but since it was full we went to UCC instead and my brother foot the bill (he's grown up now :). We stayed up pretty late (6PM, before the mall had their early new years eve close), hanging out, sharing stories and just enjoying each other's company.


We came home to Makati and the new years noise is starting to build up. The house didn't plan for media noche, but instead prepared for today's New Years Lunch of another sumptuous lunch spread (my mother-in-law cooks really good).

And as the outside world grows noiser by the minute, I'm beside Nette, sharing thanksgivings, memorable moments of 2013, sharing resolutions and commitments. Bottom line: I'm just so thankful I have Nette who is my lover, friend and partner. I was challenged by Ptr Joey Bonifacio's message last Sunday about how this new year he's repeating one of his lifetime goal, to make himself his wife's best friend for life. He even said that when he dies, his tombstone would write "follower of Jesus, wife's best friend, father of so and so". I was so challenged by that that this year I shall do the same, do my best to make myself my wife's best friend.

When the clock struck 12, we worshiped God, thanked Him for his faithfulness in 2013 and entrusted our lives, our marriage, our ministry to the Lord in 2014.

Thank you, Lord for your faithfulness in 2013. We are anticipating your goodness in 2014.